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	<title>Comments on: Where we fail: Mormon pedagogy and Fowler&#8217;s Stages of Faith, Part Three</title>
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		<title>By: What kind of person stays Mormon? &#171; Irresistible (Dis)Grace</title>
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		<dc:creator>What kind of person stays Mormon? &#171; Irresistible (Dis)Grace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 15:53:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I think I draw a similar opinion as Kevin does &#8212; the difference is in background expectations. From John Dehlin&#8217;s posts at Mormon Stories, StayLDS, Kevin&#8217;s story or john f&#8217;s old post from BCC, or comments I&#8217;ve had elsewhere on this site, I see some patters. Many of the people who fall away from the church that I talk to (or rather, many of the ones who I hear the loudest &#8212; let&#8217;s not confuse vocal prominence with the idea that this says anything about number) are not those who didn&#8217;t believe enough in the church, as some stereotypes would say, but they are those who believed too much. And they expected too much. And when these things fell apart, that&#8217;s when everything fell apart. The church just doesn&#8217;t handle this well. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I think I draw a similar opinion as Kevin does &#8212; the difference is in background expectations. From John Dehlin&#8217;s posts at Mormon Stories, StayLDS, Kevin&#8217;s story or john f&#8217;s old post from BCC, or comments I&#8217;ve had elsewhere on this site, I see some patters. Many of the people who fall away from the church that I talk to (or rather, many of the ones who I hear the loudest &#8212; let&#8217;s not confuse vocal prominence with the idea that this says anything about number) are not those who didn&#8217;t believe enough in the church, as some stereotypes would say, but they are those who believed too much. And they expected too much. And when these things fell apart, that&#8217;s when everything fell apart. The church just doesn&#8217;t handle this well. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Orwell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Orwell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 13:54:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>David,

I just want to reiterate that the number of comments a post receives is not necessarily indicative of its impact.  This series and the ensuing dialogue have been fascinating, easily one of my favorite things that I have ever read on the bloggernacle.  I could echo a lot of what bmortmft has written, but I won&#039;t venture off into redundancy.  Thanks again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David,</p>
<p>I just want to reiterate that the number of comments a post receives is not necessarily indicative of its impact.  This series and the ensuing dialogue have been fascinating, easily one of my favorite things that I have ever read on the bloggernacle.  I could echo a lot of what bmortmft has written, but I won&#8217;t venture off into redundancy.  Thanks again.</p>
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		<title>By: Jim Cobabe</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jim Cobabe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 23:19:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Perhaps I could suggest stage 5.  It involves knowing that imperfections exist in history and organization but overlooks them with a charitable attitude, realizing that God is over all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Perhaps I could suggest stage 5.  It involves knowing that imperfections exist in history and organization but overlooks them with a charitable attitude, realizing that God is over all.</p>
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		<title>By: David Clark</title>
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		<dc:creator>David Clark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2008 04:48:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>bmortmft,

Thanks for you kind words, I am glad that you enjoyed the posts.</description>
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<p>Thanks for you kind words, I am glad that you enjoyed the posts.</p>
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		<title>By: bmortmft</title>
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		<dc:creator>bmortmft</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2008 04:38:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>David,
First, I&#039;d like to thank you for a thoughtful and well-articulated series on Fowler, and the application of his theory to the Mormon experience. I am not being facetious when I say that I was almost moved to tears as I read this third post:

&quot;I have at one time or another heard every aspect of the Fowler quote above, except for the leaving home part, as describing “apostacy.” That’s like telling someone going through puberty that what they are going through makes them evil, filthy, and dirty.&quot;

For the last few months I have taken the liberty to use my Sunday School time to read Fowler&#039;s book, Becoming adult, Becoming Christian. A good portion of the book consists of an explication of the stages. It has been very heartening to me to realize that the difficulties I&#039;ve experienced in the last few years are not signs I&#039;m on the road to apostasy. I&#039;ve remained an &quot;active&quot; member but I&#039;ve really struggled to find much nourishment in the standard forms of worship employed by our church.

I&#039;ve thought a lot about how Fowler&#039;s theories might be applied to my Mormon experience. I think you&#039;re spot on in highlighting aspects of Mormon pedagogy that support those in the early stages of faith development but may leave those of us who find ourselves navigating the pitfalls of stage 4 feeling slightly crazy.

Thanks again for your work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David,<br />
First, I&#8217;d like to thank you for a thoughtful and well-articulated series on Fowler, and the application of his theory to the Mormon experience. I am not being facetious when I say that I was almost moved to tears as I read this third post:</p>
<p>&#8220;I have at one time or another heard every aspect of the Fowler quote above, except for the leaving home part, as describing “apostacy.” That’s like telling someone going through puberty that what they are going through makes them evil, filthy, and dirty.&#8221;</p>
<p>For the last few months I have taken the liberty to use my Sunday School time to read Fowler&#8217;s book, Becoming adult, Becoming Christian. A good portion of the book consists of an explication of the stages. It has been very heartening to me to realize that the difficulties I&#8217;ve experienced in the last few years are not signs I&#8217;m on the road to apostasy. I&#8217;ve remained an &#8220;active&#8221; member but I&#8217;ve really struggled to find much nourishment in the standard forms of worship employed by our church.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve thought a lot about how Fowler&#8217;s theories might be applied to my Mormon experience. I think you&#8217;re spot on in highlighting aspects of Mormon pedagogy that support those in the early stages of faith development but may leave those of us who find ourselves navigating the pitfalls of stage 4 feeling slightly crazy.</p>
<p>Thanks again for your work.</p>
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		<title>By: Clark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Clark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2008 19:10:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Back to #24 and David&#039;s question about bitterness.  I think the Church has a program and it&#039;s called home teaching and visiting teaching.  However the very resources the Church has on hand to implement this are, being charitable, weak.  (Something a few others pointed out)  Of course what tends to happen is that EQ and others appoint weak HT to strong families and strong HTs to weak families.  But people still fall between the cracks.  And, of course, one big problem is that even if you had an ideal HT the people won&#039;t necessarily listen.

I should add that I don&#039;t think this issue really a Fowler issue.  The fact is that some people get fed up with one system and merely replace it with a new one.  The new one often doesn&#039;t meet their needs any better but at least they feel like they made a change.  And sometimes there&#039;s some value they like better.  The alternative is people grow up and do start taking a more mature view of the world.  (Speaking more in Piaget terms and not necessarily Fowler terms)  They may not return of course, but it&#039;s for more complex reasons.

The problem is that ultimately you have to get people a testimony and provide them the resources to deal with hardship.  That&#039;s hard in general.  It&#039;s made harder in that a lot of problems have no easy answer.  In a way the doctrinal issues are the easiest to deal with.  How do you deal with someone who is the victim of abuse by a fellow Mormon?  How do you deal with someone who has faced a traumatic event?  Often there&#039;s little you can do beyond show love. But people in those circumstances often need change for change sake.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Back to #24 and David&#8217;s question about bitterness.  I think the Church has a program and it&#8217;s called home teaching and visiting teaching.  However the very resources the Church has on hand to implement this are, being charitable, weak.  (Something a few others pointed out)  Of course what tends to happen is that EQ and others appoint weak HT to strong families and strong HTs to weak families.  But people still fall between the cracks.  And, of course, one big problem is that even if you had an ideal HT the people won&#8217;t necessarily listen.</p>
<p>I should add that I don&#8217;t think this issue really a Fowler issue.  The fact is that some people get fed up with one system and merely replace it with a new one.  The new one often doesn&#8217;t meet their needs any better but at least they feel like they made a change.  And sometimes there&#8217;s some value they like better.  The alternative is people grow up and do start taking a more mature view of the world.  (Speaking more in Piaget terms and not necessarily Fowler terms)  They may not return of course, but it&#8217;s for more complex reasons.</p>
<p>The problem is that ultimately you have to get people a testimony and provide them the resources to deal with hardship.  That&#8217;s hard in general.  It&#8217;s made harder in that a lot of problems have no easy answer.  In a way the doctrinal issues are the easiest to deal with.  How do you deal with someone who is the victim of abuse by a fellow Mormon?  How do you deal with someone who has faced a traumatic event?  Often there&#8217;s little you can do beyond show love. But people in those circumstances often need change for change sake.</p>
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		<title>By: BHodges</title>
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		<dc:creator>BHodges</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2008 23:12:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;&quot;Condemn them for their stage 3 thinking. (grin)&quot;&lt;/i&gt;

Serious, nice one!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>&#8220;Condemn them for their stage 3 thinking. (grin)&#8221;</i></p>
<p>Serious, nice one!</p>
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		<title>By: BHodges</title>
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		<dc:creator>BHodges</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2008 23:10:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;(And let me complement David for not doing that - not that I expected him to)&quot;

Agreed on that. I think David is making a good effort at using Fowler appropriately, and recognizing the limitations of these stages is a key to allowing them to have more meaning, imo. When we move to stage 4 regarding Fowler&#039;s theory itself, eh?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;(And let me complement David for not doing that &#8211; not that I expected him to)&#8221;</p>
<p>Agreed on that. I think David is making a good effort at using Fowler appropriately, and recognizing the limitations of these stages is a key to allowing them to have more meaning, imo. When we move to stage 4 regarding Fowler&#8217;s theory itself, eh?</p>
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		<title>By: Clark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Clark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2008 23:05:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To add, I guess my point is that most of the people feeling deceived and feeling anger are just still in a stage 3 comportment and are changing beliefs and organizations affiliated with.  You can see this in a lot of post-Mormon organizations, for instance.  I don&#039;t think anyone could look at Fowler and the RFM sites and not see them as type 3.  Any type 4 person would have far better things to do with their time and investigation.  Further if someone has made the transition to stage 4 then they&#039;d not mind the messiness of LDS doctrine, history or leadership in the least.  They&#039;d just look at it and smile and then figure out what they ought to and believe.

Of course angst and disillusionment can accompany the transition from 3 to 4.  Which is what David is probably getting at.   But once you make the transition then there isn&#039;t a lot of worry.  As BHodges points out though this is why sub-stages might make some sense.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To add, I guess my point is that most of the people feeling deceived and feeling anger are just still in a stage 3 comportment and are changing beliefs and organizations affiliated with.  You can see this in a lot of post-Mormon organizations, for instance.  I don&#8217;t think anyone could look at Fowler and the RFM sites and not see them as type 3.  Any type 4 person would have far better things to do with their time and investigation.  Further if someone has made the transition to stage 4 then they&#8217;d not mind the messiness of LDS doctrine, history or leadership in the least.  They&#8217;d just look at it and smile and then figure out what they ought to and believe.</p>
<p>Of course angst and disillusionment can accompany the transition from 3 to 4.  Which is what David is probably getting at.   But once you make the transition then there isn&#8217;t a lot of worry.  As BHodges points out though this is why sub-stages might make some sense.</p>
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		<title>By: Clark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Clark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2008 22:59:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;i&gt;Sure, people who are mature and have good attitudes tend to do better at anything. My question is what do you do with those who feel cheated or deceived?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Condemn them for their stage 3 thinking.  (&lt;i&gt;grin&lt;/i&gt;)  Seriously if they are focused on such deception then under Fowler they are still stage 3 and haven&#039;t yet reached stage 4 maturity.  So you have to discuss them under stage 3 where you said the Church is successful.

I have to agree with BHodges, if one accepts Fowler, then saying one is &quot;consigned to solving their problems on their own&quot; is weird.  The whole point of stage 4 is that they focus on the individual and their weakness is that they don&#039;t want other help.  They are too inward looking.  Looking at stage 4 people and saying the organization needs to do more just seems...odd.  Unless I&#039;m missing something obvious.

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;i&gt; Thus, some say that if a Mormon believes there were literally golden plates that Joseph Smith had, such a person is automatically classified as a stage 3. This assumes there were no gold plates.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Yes.  And let me quickly repeat again that this is a misuse of Fowler.  I think Fowler wrong but I can at least understand what he is getting at. Many people who use Fowler use him as a kind of axe justifying their beliefs and attacking other believers as unenlightened.  (And let me complement David for &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; doing that - not that I expected him to)  This admittedly is what rubs me the wrong way the most about Fowler.  But I&#039;ll never criticize Fowler for how others misuse him.  I hate when people do that about thinkers I find informative and vowed never to do it.

The problem is that when people judge themselves by Fowler&#039;s taxonomy they like to be as progressed as possible.  However when one recognizes that Fowler isn&#039;t really talking about faith (despite the name) nor belief but a general low level comportment with the world then a lot of the use of Fowler is seen as silly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p><i>Sure, people who are mature and have good attitudes tend to do better at anything. My question is what do you do with those who feel cheated or deceived?</i></p></blockquote>
<p>Condemn them for their stage 3 thinking.  (<i>grin</i>)  Seriously if they are focused on such deception then under Fowler they are still stage 3 and haven&#8217;t yet reached stage 4 maturity.  So you have to discuss them under stage 3 where you said the Church is successful.</p>
<p>I have to agree with BHodges, if one accepts Fowler, then saying one is &#8220;consigned to solving their problems on their own&#8221; is weird.  The whole point of stage 4 is that they focus on the individual and their weakness is that they don&#8217;t want other help.  They are too inward looking.  Looking at stage 4 people and saying the organization needs to do more just seems&#8230;odd.  Unless I&#8217;m missing something obvious.</p>
<blockquote><p><i> Thus, some say that if a Mormon believes there were literally golden plates that Joseph Smith had, such a person is automatically classified as a stage 3. This assumes there were no gold plates.</i></p></blockquote>
<p>Yes.  And let me quickly repeat again that this is a misuse of Fowler.  I think Fowler wrong but I can at least understand what he is getting at. Many people who use Fowler use him as a kind of axe justifying their beliefs and attacking other believers as unenlightened.  (And let me complement David for <i>not</i> doing that &#8211; not that I expected him to)  This admittedly is what rubs me the wrong way the most about Fowler.  But I&#8217;ll never criticize Fowler for how others misuse him.  I hate when people do that about thinkers I find informative and vowed never to do it.</p>
<p>The problem is that when people judge themselves by Fowler&#8217;s taxonomy they like to be as progressed as possible.  However when one recognizes that Fowler isn&#8217;t really talking about faith (despite the name) nor belief but a general low level comportment with the world then a lot of the use of Fowler is seen as silly.</p>
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